Party ideas
Birthday party ideas for turning 5
Eight ideas that suit the elementary school years, plus a four-step planning timeline you can count back from the big day.
Eight ways to celebrate
Small sleepover
Invite two or three close friends for pizza, a movie and sleeping bags in the living room.
Bowling or mini golf
Book a few lanes or a round of mini golf and finish with cake at the table.
Pool party
Head to a community pool or backyard pool for a splashy party with plenty of adult supervision.
Cupcake decorating party
Bake the cupcakes ahead and let each guest decorate their own with frosting and sprinkles.
Costume or superhero party
Ask guests to come dressed as a favorite hero and add a hero training obstacle course.
Backyard movie night
Hang a sheet or use a projector, pile up blankets and serve popcorn and juice boxes.
Craft and make party
Set up stations for painting, friendship bracelets or slime, and send each guest home with their creation.
Bounce house or trampoline park
Book a play space or rent a bounce house and let the kids run wild for an hour or two.
Planning timeline
- 6 weeks outLet the birthday kid pick a theme, then set a budget and guest list and book the venue.
- 3 weeks outSend invitations with an RSVP date, ask about allergies and order supplies.
- 1 week outConfirm the RSVPs, order the cake and prepare the games and goodie bags.
- The day ofPlan activities in short bursts, keep snacks simple and have an indoor backup for weather.
Add the birthday to see the dates for each step.
A toast to borrow
Here's to a year full of adventure, laughter and cake. Happy birthday!
Card message
Happy birthday! I hope your day is filled with fun, friends and a really big slice of cake.
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Gifts and a plan for 5
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