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Birthday party ideas for turning 39

Eight ideas that suit your thirties, plus a four-step planning timeline you can count back from the big day.

Eight ways to celebrate

Backyard barbecue with kids' play area
Invite friends with families, set up a few kid games and let the adults relax.
Dinner with close friends
Book a long table at a favorite restaurant and keep the guest list small.
Backyard game night
Set up lawn games, board games and snacks for an easy evening outside.
Brewery or winery tour
Spend the afternoon tasting with friends and book a driver for the ride home.
Brunch with a mimosa bar
Host a weekend brunch with fresh juices, pastries and a relaxed pace.
Cooking class together
Learn a new cuisine with friends or family, then sit down to eat what you made.
Hike and picnic
Pick a scenic trail, pack a picnic and make the day about fresh air and good company.
Family movie night
Pick favorites, make popcorn and let the kids stay up a little late.

Planning timeline

  1. 6 weeks outChoose a plan and a date, and reserve the restaurant, venue or sitter if you need one.
  2. 3 weeks outSend invitations so busy friends can clear their calendars.
  3. 1 week outConfirm the headcount, order the cake or dessert and pick up anything you need to buy.
  4. The day ofKeep it simple, set up early and enjoy being with the people you love.

Add the birthday to see the dates for each step.

A toast to borrow

Here's to being more sure of who you are and still full of surprises. Cheers!

Card message

Happy birthday! Your thirties look great on you.

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